I agree with what SG said too. But men are what men are. So whatcha gonna do? There's a gap there. How do you fill it?
Weeelllllll...... bwllshcit!!! Excuse... sneezed. Uhm. That's like me saying... "LD is LD, whatcha gonna do?"
You explore your sexuality, my man. And men are going to do it in different ways than women. I have thoughts and ideas on the matter, just like the guys here had for me long ago when I was working things out...
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What you described about your H is true. It may be confusing to the woman and a hypocritical stand for the men to hold up, but its still there, at least with many men (not the ones on this board though, LOL!)
I REFUSE to EVER live my life like that again. Ever. And I think this is where MoJo is kind of headed with her recent sexuality talks. She is who she is. Don't for one second hide it. Just be CLEAR on it first... for in your mis-clarity, you may send out the wrong 'vibe.'