DONT mention D id if dont want one....BUT do mention finances and his support for you. Dont bring up anything about S unless it is joint parenting. Do not mention that S is against OW. that will make him run further away. These MLCers are funny creatures you have to lure them out of the hole with a tidbit...but often they grab it and run back in....have zero expectations and let his peeks out of the hole be just what they are.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest