DONT mention D id if dont want one....BUT do mention finances and his support for you. Dont bring up anything about S unless it is joint parenting. Do not mention that S is against OW. that will make him run further away.
These MLCers are funny creatures you have to lure them out of the hole with a tidbit...but often they grab it and run back in....have zero expectations and let his peeks out of the hole be just what they are.


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest