Sometimes you are too cryptic. I don't usually waste my time trying to figure out what someone is trying to say. Tell me what the spirited debate is that you want to have and we can have it.
I wasn't being cryptic. I was teasing. Which may or may not be the same thing.
The debate is whether or not someone like Mojo should *play games* in order to find a LTR, or whether there will be men out there who would not only understand, but welcome a woman in touch with her sexuality. I still hold to the later. I really believe a lot of HD behaviour is disguised insecurity, and I really believe Mojo's isn't. I think her sensuality is genuine, and she'll be miserable on many different levels if her bf/new husband doesn't appreciate that part of her.
I say she should be who she is. Have sex or not have sex, but not according to some "rule" or "formula", but to what feels authentic to her, the guy, and the situation. Much better in the long run. IMO.
