I don't know your whole theory yet and I am already nodding my head.
That whole double-standard that Cobra just described, I think is actually OUT THERE... and quite prevalent... Lord knows it was shoved down my throat by the buckets when I was a young girl... but I also think it the Madonna/Whore thing... where the husband wants his woman to be a chaste woman as far as the world sees her, but a whore in the his bedroom.
That is exceedingly confusing to women... especially women who have had no or little sexual experience prior to being married. (What... I was supposed to 'save' myself, not act like a slut in order to attract a good man for a H... I do, and I get married... and now I'm supposed to embrace sex and act like a slut with my H now that I am no longer on the market? HUH?!!!)
