And there is absolutely NO INTENT, FROM THE GET GO, that an R will EVER form.

Is there anyone here, who has a R with person that they INTENDED from the get go fro that to happen?

I know Mojo didnt. I know cobra didnt. I doubt the Nops were. I know mine wasnt. Anyone?

The vast majority of R's start off without any intention or expectation. Thats why the majority fail when you add expectation. IMO.