Thank you for all the suggestions. Sounds like everyone has a plan that works for them. I am going to work with the suggestions and see what I can come up with H that works for us.

Yeah, the TV's/ DVD etc is a pain. We had an older (still nice) TV in the basement that the H "let me" take with me. DVD players are pretty cheap so i just picked one of those up.

I think I might buy some additional clothes on Ebay or something. Its change of season here in NE so all the summer stuff will be going in the closet and she is much bigger than last year so I am not sure how much fall/winter stuff will still fit. That being said we do not have an abundance of clothes to start with.

Good ideas folks. H & I just need to get a better grip on what the "plan" will be. At least for now we seem to be getting into a better routine, and almost a full weekend rotation which is a relief to me. This every other day crap was driving me nuts. now its every two days which seems to be working better. ***We live about 20 minutes away from each other but D4's school is half way*** works out well for the time being.


Me: 30
EX-H: 37
DD: 5
Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC.
Divorce Final 8/14/08.
Trying to move on with new life.