They certaintly are AH.....this sucks hon. Your a strong woman, I am a stong woman. This has certaintly brought me to my knees with a weight unequal to anything I've ever encountered before.
Jeanette - I too can relate to your comment. It has been 7+ months since she moved out and I still get sad every day at least once. I am GALing and try to have a PMA, but for me I have lost my best friend of the last 13+ years and the mother of my daughter. Oh well - onward and upward!
Me: 48 Ex-W: 45 M: Nov '96, together since Oct 93 Bomb: on 10-yr anni - Nov '06 OM Separated: mid-Feb '07 Divorced mid-July '08 One daughter - 28 XW living w/OM