Sometimes I post things and when I go back and read them I realize that I probably come off as somebody who is really a lot more blatantly sexually assertive than I am in real life. I think there are probably a lot of LD women who actually act more sexually assertive in public than me for social reasons. I was assuming in the example Cobra gave, he had made some sort of sexual approach or blatant signal to the woman and she was simply responding in a freely, highly aroused sexual way and not waiting for him to up the ante. I wasn't imagining some woman hitting on Cobra by squirming all over him on a bar stool or something like that - lol.
No, that's not what I mean...
If I have had a scenario with a man you just described you've had as a woman... (not just some guy, drunk, pawing on me), I think of him as out for a night of 'slumming.' He finds a girl (or more than likely the girl finds him), he engages her in convo, if she is receptive, he takes it to the next level... then she is picked up, carried home, fcked pretty thoroughly... and then their lives move on. No commitments, just great fcking.
And there is nothing WRONG with that, but I would not necessarily equate that with a well developed sense of sexuality. I just call it slumming. And there is absolutely NO INTENT, FROM THE GET GO, that an R will EVER form. Maybe that is the vibe you are giving out, I don't know. Are you?
I just wanted to explain to you what I meant... it may not be what YOU meant...
