Gwyn,

That sounds good. Retrouvaille is not really like being at Church though. It is a wonderful experience, but it is not other worldly. It's more like being at a seminar. But it will help you and your husband communicate better. And it sounds like you are pretty good at it, and he doesn't communicate at all. It will even the skills up there. It is really aimed at skill building, not God reaching. But you can reach God there; that would have to be your choice. No one will push that on you.