You've hit the nail on the head with splitting the clothes and toys. A few favorites in each place, then just divvy up the rest. Don't know about your, but my girls have more clothes than they could ever wear anyway.
If anything comes out of this, they'll be less spoiled because we can't get as much for them as we used to.
For movies, we're still sorting that out. Luckily, we're close enought that if we need anything from the other's place, we can quickly get it.
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Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY