I can't remember all of your back story, but it's not been terribly long that she's been out of the house and you see each other all of the time. I believe you've given others similar advice, so: just because she gets a dish doesn't mean she can't change her mind in the future. Don't mind read and keep DBing. Plus, and I can't remember who posted this (maybe I've seen it in multiple places), it seems to be that most of the WAWs come back once the LBS is well and truly detached.
Keep on keeping on.
BD
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY