Okay my opinion but you did have an affair. Yes there could be two sides to every story. But you did the most horrible thing any spouse could ever go through and that is the pain of a spouse having sex with someone else.
I consider it every admirable that Cali is trying to change herself. She not only came here for support but to try and save her marriage. To try and keep her family intact for the two of you as well as those babies at home.
She has said several times that she had faults. She is working on those and trying to change herself.
