homeplate, ya know what, it would be great if you two could go to MC or something where you could tell your side and feel justified and such. but sometimes its nice for a person to have a safe place to come and talk, and Kali had that here, for a while.
trust me, we all know there is more than one side to a story. every person here has another person with their version of events. but what we need are people who are just here to listen, to help us through a hard time in our lives, and to maybe offer a glimmer of hope as to how to make what we want a reality. I am in no way a judge or jury, I don't honestly care about the spouses version all that much. I care that Kali, and other people here are hurting and want to try to make things better.
Kali came here because she wanted to save her marriage. that is why each and every one of us found this site. not because she wanted to trash her husband, or put herself on a pedestal. she knows her own faults/weaknesses. we all know our own. and we all want to do better...hopefully with our spouses, but barring that, on our own.
I hope you choose to give Kali some space here on these boards.
Kali, (((HUGS))). having my H find this site is one of my worst nightmares, and I feel for you here. please take care of yourself. I will keep thinking of you and hoping for the best. keep on keepin' on.
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
