That's actually pretty good stuff. Not textbook DB probably but compassionate and effective and truthful. Again, I see a lot of parellels b/n your sitch and my own. I know my W still cares for me, it's the lack of trust that I can hold true to the things I have changed that's causing her to continue her walk away. I think if you actually believe everything you just said, if you really feel those things then you're in a good spot.