Since your private message box is full I can’t send there and to everyone else I’m sorry for taking up a post but I wanted to get this off my chest. I’m not sure how it happened but I get the sense we got off on the wrong foot. If you feel I have disrespected you in any way that is not my intention and I’m sorry. I have an amazing amount of respect and admiration for you as we all do.
You have provided me with hope and wise words even when it seems like I'm not listening I wanted to let you know I appreciate it. You are truly one of kind and I am grateful for your help.
H 30 (me) W 28 Married 9 yrs 2 children EA found out on 7/5/07 ILYBNILWY 8/25/07 The unexamined life is not worth living -Socrates
Hope things are looking up for you. Of course, night is darkest just before dawn, so if you are still feeling hopeless, just remember that.
This was certainly the case for me. Even though my sitch with my W has not really improved, getting my financial house in order and taking control of my life has given me PMA like I have not had in years. I just started thinking about my W as my teen-aged daughter and everything got a heck of a lot easier (and more appropriate).
Try it, you might like it!
SD
Me 41 W 41 Kids: S9 S7 Married 16 years Bomb dropped 2/2/07 Still living together! current thread
That's funny -- I too have taken to thinking of my wife as having reverted back to being a teenager. I think, "a petulant fourteen year old girl" when I see her, and it's a little easier to deal with the insanity of it all.
I'm serious about the bad toupee. My 16 and 19 year old daughters are so embarassed. They said there are lots of bald dads, why did ours have to get a bad toupee?
It's pretty bad. His fringe of hair is gray and the "rug" is dark brown with very little gray. He goes to "Hair Club". So guys if you are thinking of investing in a "piece" find somewhere else! It looks like a dead critter on top of his head.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
Think of all the fun you could have with that weasel (I mean the toupee) if you didn't have to be a perfect lady, and the better person, and all of those wearisome things. At the very least, you could scream and spray it with a can of bear mace.
LOL!