I'm sorry he is going this route. I tend to agree with everyone that he probably doesn't REALLY want a trial. I mean seriously HE is the one with all the irrational behavior. Oh wait, he thinks he is perfectly rational...
Honestly, Althea is right, if you give in 2 years from now you may very well be wishing you hadn't.
In the last couple of years you have grown and become so strong and centered, don't let this rattle you. It may well not get to trial.
I hope you are enjoying the days, our weather here isn't as hot as it had been. Hopefully it will be BEAUTIFUL when you come.