I've never gotten a private message, so I don't know how I could be over my limit.I also tried to leave you a private message, but it said you were over your limit as well. There must be something wrong with it. Would love to have your insight, but don't know how to get my email address to you.
Saw your post to me just now--been avoiding the house all day because I can't stand to be here. You've been going through the same thing? I'm sorry--I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy. My latest is that today I fled to go to the country to avoid being home, as I mentioned. While there, my partner (who wrote me a letter the day before telling me how ecstatic she was over her 2-to-6-week affair, depending on the version, and hoped that I too would be able to find happiness, embrace life, and rediscover myself), texted me to say she needed some stuff from the house. I told her I was out of town and only returning tomorrow. She texted back asking where the dogs were. I didn't respond, but they were at my parents'. She then texted again asking "What, you're a world traveler all of a sudden?" I still haven't answered. I think she was trying to be funny, rather than sarcastic, but I don't feel much like banter. Still deciding whether to respond. Found out that she went ahead and dropped in on my parents to see the dogs--exactly what I didn't want. She hasn't had a chance to miss our life, and she had just gone a week without seeing the dogs. Now she had her dog fix, AND, she is spending tonight with her OP. Stellar. What have you been living? What is wrong with people???? Have you heard the song "Flawed Design" by Stabilo? I think it should become my partner's personal anthem...
"In every marriage more than a week old, there are grounds for divorce. The trick is to find, and continue to find, grounds for marriage." -- Robert Anderson
