Theotherhalf- You are not pathetic, I agree with the others, but I have to admit, I also understand how you feel. Similar sitch with me and H. I often feel like, what am I doing?? Why try anymore. Then I think of how important my M is to me and how important my kids are to me and if nothing else i think- HELL if I am going to change the type of person I am and just give up on something I believe in. And this is WITH my H filing for D. I want to be the one who can honestly lok at my kids down the road and KNOW I have tryed everything. That INCLUDES trying and I think doing a successful job of things for me that show him......DUDE you are making a terrible mistake! I think you are doing a good job on that too. CONGRATS on the 50lb. weight loss. It should make you feel extraordinary that you were able to do something so difficult with all this crap going on. I too have lost weight (80 lbs) and I think my H is irritated. Well, if he wants to walk away I can not control that, but I will make it difficult for him to do so. You hang in there!!
Me:33; Ring on 5/17/97 H:33; Ring off 5/31/07 Together:13years Married: 10 ("celebrated" 10th after he moved out Bomb Dropped: New Year's Eve '07 Moved out: 5/4/07 Filed: 3 weeks later S: 3 D&S(twins):1
