Angelica, You are right. I am not complaining per se about him being a part-time parent. I am more pointing out that he is barely present - in life in general. But I had fun putting together S3's gifts. Then I gave them to him the next day and we celebrated wtih my parents.
The next day i came home to find flowers at my doorstep from H. He is in Boston on business. The card said, "I know you are feeling bad and it's my fault - I'm sorry and I feel bad too". Don't know what to make of it. I TM'd him, "thank you for the flowers and the note".
He called later to check in. I told him about the day. We chatted for 10 min or so. He called this evening as ell and we chatted again. Looks like Jeckle is back again.
Tomorrow, I am going to see H's C. I shoudl probably stop calling her H's C since I've been to her almost as many times as he has and I'm the one who found her. Anyway, I've had this appt for 2 weeks now. Who knows what will come of that.
I'm still in pretty good spirits.
Married 9 years Kids 5 and 6 Bomb 2006 H back and forth for a year M now back on track