Hope things are looking up for you. Of course, night is darkest just before dawn, so if you are still feeling hopeless, just remember that.
This was certainly the case for me. Even though my sitch with my W has not really improved, getting my financial house in order and taking control of my life has given me PMA like I have not had in years. I just started thinking about my W as my teen-aged daughter and everything got a heck of a lot easier (and more appropriate).
Try it, you might like it!
SD
Me 41 W 41 Kids: S9 S7 Married 16 years Bomb dropped 2/2/07 Still living together! current thread
