Hey, Morgan. Just caught up again--you all are fast!
My son took forever for training. My D wanted big girl underpants, we bought them and threw the diapers away--done! What a difference.
btw, your H and mine sound SO alike, it is spooky. The rest of us on this thread, too (neph, L, mk, etc.).
I think my H is as stubborn as neph's--so many have told me this, too, that he won't even let himself consider going back on his momentus decision. Too bad, really. I can't believe how quickly my own feelings are shifting, to wondering if I would ever want this person to be so intimately close in my life again. And how much of our lives together were ever real.
Right now, he is trying to buy away his guilt with the kids--bowling, mini-golf, toys, eating out, etc. He doesn't understand that this will not redeem what he has done.