When to move back in together?

[believing_isaiah43]

As women, don't we want to feel deeply attractive and worthy of loving? She stole that from me, and I hate her for it.

I also enjoyed my husband sexually more than he did/does me. I have always wanted more sex with him. I have been told 'no' more times than I could count. That all hurt deeply, but to have him go and give it to someone else is torture.

ding ding ding! we have a winner! this is EXACTLY how I felt after H's A, and still feel, as we are continuing in a SSM, blah blah. I'm just so glad to see someone else with this exact same deal (altho, sorry for you, you know what i'm sayin').

I too wonder if we won't be just roommates for eternity, but he's a good guy and a great dad. it could be worse, and i still believe it will get better someday.