Bryan - the others can add from experience, but I do share the same feelings you do, and for me, its part of the process. My W should not now just be able to stroll back into my life, and nor should yours. R takes two and a lot of hard work, and we should all want the very best - sticking together when you know its not right is not the right answer, in my view.
Me - 39 W - 33 M - 5yrs Bomb - 8/5 2007 Moving out - 9/8 2007
