Thanks psych. I don't know that I'm doing the detachment correctly though because I now kind of feel resigned to me and the W not getting back together. I mean, I still love her and still would like to work things out. On the other hand, the past couple of days my eyes have really opened up to the changes she would have to make in order for me to be happy in our M again and I don't know that she wants to make those changes. I love her with or without the changes, I just don't see myself being happy in the M without them if that makes sense. And I'm getting to a point where I'm can't settle for not being happy anymore. Is this normal? MKultra, Nugget, Dom, any of you guys that have done this over a long period of time, is this a normal progression or am I missing something?
