Lissie - try not to read anything into the MC comments, and try not to anslyse him - it will destroy you just thinking and trying to figure it all through. Go with the flow, keep DBing, do the 180s, live life for YOU and your children, be happy, and H will either come round and realise what he is about to lose or he'll lose it - either way, you WILL be stronger, you WILL come through this, and you WILL be happy again. I've posted 3 times tonite, but find myself saying the same thing - time is our friend in all this. Be patient.
Me - 39 W - 33 M - 5yrs Bomb - 8/5 2007 Moving out - 9/8 2007