Bryan - good for you. I have found that in the past few days, I am detaching, that the NC is actually helping me to do that, and like you, have started to realise that the world is a big place and that there are plenty of other great people waiting to receive the sort of new love and affection we can offer. If our WAWs cannot see sense and continue on their destructive ways, we must let them go - one day they'll realise it - and in the meantime, live life to the full. If someone else comes along, you have the power to make a choice right .... and by that time, the W may be starting to attach again. Time time time is our friend.
Me - 39 W - 33 M - 5yrs Bomb - 8/5 2007 Moving out - 9/8 2007