There and Back, #6

[nephartiti]

I know what you mean, Morgan. We still love our H's. It is hard to watch them suffer. They do suffer. My H looked heartbroken when I didn't take those silly toys he bought S2. I still feel horrible about it. After all the rotten things he's done, I feel like a horrible person for not taking the stinking toys, and I feel horrible that he will have no money for 2 1/2 weeks, but he has to go through this on his own. It is very difficult. Your H probably is coming to terms with all of those things (it was probably the apple crisp:) ). Will it be enough for him to make changes, I don't know. Don't hold your breath.

I was thinking. I know that, eventially my H will realize he has made a horrible mistake. However he is very proud and a "I've made my bed I have to lie in it" kind of guy. He may never come back just because he is stubborn.

Does this DB stuff ever backfire? Here we are GALing and showing how we can live w/out our H's. Does this ever send the message, "Don't feel bad. We are fine. Go and be happy." Does this stuff make it easier for them to say, "she's fine. She doesn't need/want me. Good thing I still have this OW."?

I was thinking of spending the cash to talk to a coach. Have any of you tried this? Is it worth the $?

Hey, Morgan, how did the potty adventure turn out?

Sorry for highjacking your thread.