Thanks for the response and your good wishes. The way I'm feeling now is certainly more comfortable for me. I'm not really sure how I got here - it was a big switch from one day to the next, and maybe tomorrow I'll be back the other way. Or maybe the Zoloft just kicked in.
I'm really going to go for dimness now and focus on me. H knows the way home if he wants.
How is my crazy H like your XH?
In4ride Me 50, H 55, M 17 yrs 1st Bomb Drop 12/7/03 Separated mostly in house Come back together/H breaks back 9/04 Piecing, surgeries, recovery, H retires 2nd Bomb Drop 9/3/07 H moves out 20 min later