Just stay focused because it is rarely smooth sailing in the beginning...even if things seem to be going along...
I thought that he was changing his number again and making sure to keep it unlisted???...so if he did that why the numbers from an unknown caller believed to be OW?
Well...just keep keeping on...your going in the right direction and H is there...big step!
oh, I know hon, we are still sleeping separately and there is a distance between us, but there isn't that strain between us as before, it was even akward the first weeks to be together, I'm not counting my chicks before they hatch.
He couldnt', it screwed our phone billing last time he did it, so we are waiting 'til the new billing cycle (2wks) to do so, in the meantime I have his battery for his phone and he uses mine.
Hugs))))
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
thanks PS, will keep my eyes up ahead, right now my H is still going to T, though sometimes I feel we're back in that place where I'm trying to make things good and happy andhe's just coasting along, I have to find the line where I stop myself from carrying this M again, I won't do it but also I don't want to stay still and wait for things to fall on my lap.
It's the first month, many more to come, he is still pretty quiet, keeps to himself, though that has always been his nature. *sigh* I have to chase bad thoughts from my head now and then (about having a friend to make me feel good) I know where such friendships lead, sometimes I just want to feel wanted.
Anyways.... then I see you guys, PS, fighting the good fight, and remember to behave myself
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
I have to say, sometimes I see my own husband and I floating back into old habits, and then we kind of pull out of them. Just take it a day at a time and think about the positives.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
I too am getting very tired of W dragging her heals on this whole thing. Last night I had to lovingly call her on something, I think it turned out well.
