Didn't have the R talk yet, still getting my thoughts together. For some reason I have the panic feeling going on today. Perhaps I need to lay out a little more what I'm looking for in our M. I have to remember it needs to be baby steps and not go full tilt.
The position with your H is unfortunate, without more details I'm not sure what to say on that issue. Sounds like he is at a very frustrated point in his life and just wants to bag what he can't control, then move on from there. Unfortunately, that doesn't work as we know here. Hopefully, he will learn that before he let's things deteriorate too far.
