Thanks Lil


RJ, sorry to hear about the EA/PA?

I thought I knew your story but see I don't know much after all.

This (A's, divorces, previous M's) has come up before with other posters and no one has judged the poster.

I think we are all here to help and support almost everyone on the forum in all but really selfish cases.

Your situation is not selfish or ridiculous, so post what you need to move forward. We are here for you for the long haul.

Lou