You know Lil, I don't think I talk much about it here, probably due to embarrassment over the fact that I missed the boat for so long. And getting into the details hasn't been a path I chose to take, rightly or wrongly. But the OW is someone who worked in his office about 5 yrs ago; after less than a year she left, and apparently was struggling to get new employment ( she has a history of job instability). She contacted my H ( singled him out from 5 married male doctors working there...guess he was projecting those vibes)to " help" her with an application. Apparently she was " just a friend " for awhile, however, I was never told about their lunches, and indeed never knew about her at all. And so it began...an emotional and physical entanglement.
