Heim, I said the same things too that besides the OP in his life that our problems were solvable if both actually put an effort into it but we always figure out things too late. The good part of this is that you recognize what the problems were and you make yourself a better person for it. So many people get D, re-M then only get D again besides they bring the same old problems into it just a different person.
Me: 41 H: 39 D: 6 S: 4 M-14 T-16 first bomb: 5-12-07 (M dead doesn't really want to work things out.) second bomb: 6-4-2007 (found note he wrote about wanting desperately to be with OW and would have to give up everything) Kelley