Like they say H it ain't over till that fat lady sings...don't totally give up. Detach, GAL and keep up what your doing. These changes are for YOU and will make you a better man. Whether you reconcile with W or not, you will be all the better for it.
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.