As always the voices of reason!

No boob shirts in sight. My college pals are very serious and somewhat uptight...thats what you get for going to a serious university here in Boston.

Def no plans for that kind of fun just yet. Maybe just some socializing and flirting. I am sort of waiting for the "last call" on reconcillation before jumping back in the pond. I am sure you two are dipping your toes in too, but thats about all I am interested in. I don't even want to get or give phone numbers as it seems a little too much. Maybe just some casual chatter at the local pub. Never hurts the ego.

For the record, i would not discount an older man but when I am ready I will probably have to try out a no strings man-child boy toy before heading out into the "real world". They seem to have lower expectations. Besides, I was totally taken by the boy that asked me on that pub crawl!


Me: 30
EX-H: 37
DD: 5
Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC.
Divorce Final 8/14/08.
Trying to move on with new life.