mkultra You may consider googling co-dependency and look for items that debunk the whole thing.. just for perspective. I think we can damage ourselves by enabling for our own need to "save" somebody but I think there is a distinction between this and simply loving and wishing to assist the people we love. Sometimes those loving acts match the same symptoms of the so-called "co-dependent." It can get confusing.
Me: 41 H: 50 M: 15 years S14-D12-D10 S: 05/07 Back home: 08/08 EA: 4 yrs