What is reasonable and what is not?

[Startingover2]

Funny about OW driving by his hose and him not being there. Wonder if she then drove by yours and saw he was!

JAK

I love it. She actually did drive by his house last Saturday morning and then by my house where he was. I happened to see her and distantly followed her.

I guess the part that blows me away is she is "knowing" all of this. She knows he spends the night, spends time with me, we go places together and she and the rest of the world sees us. She knows we are having a baby. It would be different if exh was hiding all of this and she had no idea and thought she was the only one. If I were her and my bf/friend told me he was having a baby with his exw I would be running for the hills.

I am going to try the semi dark thing. I never really call him. I am not going to chase him like she does.

I do have pity for OW mixed in with the hatred. I often wonder if now it has turned into a win/lose thing for her and not so much emotion? I have known her distantly for many years and she is big on appearances and how she looks to people. I am sure that it was rather humiliating when exh had to tell her I was preggo.