Bryan - you are right. There are other fish in the sea as they say. I am trying to get to that detachment myself. It is hard since the last thing you want to think of right now is it not working out and being with someone else or them with someone else. Maybe I will have to take a trip to Vegas to help me out.
I am not ready to walk either. I think we just need to accept that our lives with them are on hold so to speak but we need to go on living. Eventually they will be back in our lives one way or the other we just have to have the patience to give them this time that they need. That is what I am doing and it seems to be working. He has been nicer to me this week then the last several and he is really starting to look at me I think. I just hope that is all a good sign like the MC says. Hang in there.
If you get down or need to chat I am here for you.