(((lael))),

There is no way we can be prepared for this day, even though we know it is coming. I'm sending you many big cyber hugs.

Your attitude seems to be tremendous. I hope you are really really proud of yourself coming through this with so much dignity and what sounds like a fair bit of compassion.

I think everyone responds differently to the final D day. I hope you can accept whatever kind of delayed reactions you may have and post here often so we know how you're doing.

Hugs,
AH