Should I bring home the flowers?

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I just went to the webstie - thanks Sara. But I think anything even remotely religious may turn him off. He's essentially agnostic (we probably were not matched well in that regard from the get-go), very confused and the OW claims to be "so religious" yet her actions are contributing to the destruction of my family.
Were your husbands open to the weekend? How did you approach the subject?
I just don't know if he's ready. He comes over and all but there is no talk of anything about our relationship - no communication about repair, divorce, anything. I have posted here that I recently saw a therapist who suggested I take him to dinner and tell him that we miss him and we want him to come home. I did and the response was crying and warmth but no answer and no movement toward couples counceling which I left information about on our counter per therapist's instructions.