And you are right, whether the phone calls are happening or not, we are responsible only for ourselves and doing what we have to do to stay sane and have fun.
Lwb, sounds like you got it figured out. I know I may be the last one anyone wants advice from since my sitch did not end happily...but here's my 2 cents. In hindsight, I did not focus on myself enough. Honestly, I waited too many months to GAL and detach....DO IT and DO IT NOW. Your life is going to go on either way. Get off the rollercoaster...it will only make you miserable. FOCUS ON YOU.
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