What is reasonable and what is not?

[Startingover2]

Last night I went to my daughters volleyball game. About halfway through he sent me a text asking how it was going. I didn't respond till after the game was over and told him it went well. He then said he was just hanging out at home. I never answered again because I got busy with dinner for the kids, etc.

He then sent on asking why I wasn't talking to him. He knows. But I just said I was busy. He wanted to come and spend the night and I said I had an emotional day and he could come, but I was tired. He came down, was sweet and attentive....I fell asleep about 20 minutes after he got here.

This morning he was still at my house and I had to take my kids to school. I have to drive by Exh's street on my way and coming the other way was OW (yes, small town). She turned up his street and drove by his house.....HA HA he was at mine...I did get a bit of satisfaction out of that.

I am building alot of hatred towards her and it scares me. I know he is not innocent in all of this, but a person with any common decency would bow out of this situation. She is pursuing harder than ever.

I am GAL these next few days. He has his kids and I don't so I will have more time to do my own thing. We are still going out of town this weekend. Looking forward to that.