e absolutely sure you are ready to let him go. And be absolutely sure that YOU are prepared for him to move on without you. Make sure that it is the right decision for you, don't second guess like me ex did.
That's how I felt when I divorced my first H. Although our M was over, when I saw him with another women, it really hit home. But I am so over that. My current H said pretty much the same thing sometime ago that I didn't want him but I didn't want someone else to have him. My answer to him was that "someone else has already had you and I live with that every day of my life!" And, that's how I feel. It isn't about him moving on, don't you get it, it's about ME moving on!
