theo, if you don't mind, can I take your advice and use it for myself? LO and I have similar situations and I love what you said. Opened my eyes to the fact that me harping on OW and phone calls yet again will only make matters worse. Its never helped in the past, that's for sure.

And you are right, whether the phone calls are happening or not, we are responsible only for ourselves and doing what we have to do to stay sane and have fun. Thanks.