I just posted this on The Girl's thread, but it really hit home for me today...some thoughts I jotted down earlier this year, and they're important for me to remember:
-Accept reality for what it is now, gain personal independence from that...be more self-sufficient and less needy -Don't take responsibility for anyone else's thoughts, feelings...don't assume -Act as if, but don't center my life, decisions, thoughts and actions around him: GAL
Why do I need to be reminded constantly about everything I already know? I'd read a cheat sheet every morning to remember everything I need to remember, but I'd be reading all day!
