mk is right. The clocks are off, and that's a bad thing. Sometimes the LBS can't take it anymore, and just when you think its going to end, they come around. Maybe that's detachment in disguise. But we all have to decide just how long we can stand this, do we really want this 'new' person back now that we know what they are capable of, and are we ready to set ourselves up to possibly be hurt again. Not to mention, even after reconciliation, it seems to me the LBS does most of the marriage work as well.
