Thanks guys. Let me throw something out there too. If my H asks me to go, I'll go. I've pitched to him, we have the brochure and if he makes the arrangements, I'll do it. I've decided I'm not going to make the arrangements. During our 2 1/2 yrs of reconciling, I've made the MC appointments, made vacation arrangements, paid for them (we keep money separate), planned surprises, etc. hoping all of this would somehow re-light our fire only it backfired. My H said he didn't need sex. What's the use? Come on, put yourself in my shoes, just a little.
Yes, I am a little angry. We were only married for one year. I gave up A LOT to enter this marriage - I was financially secure and now I could loose what I hade BEFORE I married him, which makes me angry. It's almost that he's reaping rewards for ruining our marriage, at my expense.
