Just wanted to pop in and see how you are doing. You know I am over in the SSM now. So, anytime you want to visit, I will be there until I get like "imLin" and can give success stories (yea!).
BTW, how can you tell that you had posts deleted? I guess I never noticed.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
Hi, Nomo. It has been a long time. Seems like we hit intense, too. But things came to a grinding halt in my sitch, and I don't forsee much movement any time soon.
I check in to see if you have been around every few days or so. As intense as it has been, I hope that you are still taking care of you, followed closely by the kiddos. Please know that I (and many here) have been thinking kindly of you.
Thank you Nomo! Keep plugging along! I know good things will come in time.I guess for me I had to totally disconnect and start a new life, as short as that was :), before my H turned around. You have made every effort to follow the plan and do the right thing. Only you will know what's next. Take care, S
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
Hi all. Thanks for checking in. Just been going out lots, flirting, GALing, having fun, taking care of me. No details to report really. Feeling good. Anger seems to have dissipated. Guess I got lots of my chest. Just wanted to let everyone who knows me know that they don't need to worry. Just living day-to-day, and trying to have fun.
DR seems as simple as this:
1. Stop the Chase (I think I finally have)
2. Focus on You (GAL, etc.) - this I have been doing, but getting better every day.
Hugs to all my friends out there in virtual DR/DB land, Nomo
M 39 W 39 M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs S7 D4 Bomb 5-8-05 W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22 DB 4-10 S 6-11 No more C Link
Hey Nomo, Clink, Clink of glasses, I am right there with you. It feels good to be smiling and laughing again.
Me: 41 H: 39 D: 6 S: 4 M-14 T-16 first bomb: 5-12-07 (M dead doesn't really want to work things out.) second bomb: 6-4-2007 (found note he wrote about wanting desperately to be with OW and would have to give up everything) Kelley
You got it Nomo! That was it for me. As soon as I GAL, didn't allow those bad hurtful feelings and was able to communicate with my H with out anger and pain, things started to fall into place. Really, as soon as I was out having fun and thinking I could get used to this, bang! Here he came. If that is what you want for yourself, I hope you get it. If not, you are on your way to what ever your new journey is. Take care, S
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
so please let us know how are things with you.