Hi Talley - just wanted to let you know that I also have an interest in your question and it seems my sitch is similar to yours, though I am not divorced just yet. I have read that between 6-14% of divorces end up getting remarried.

I hope the best for you.

Me: 48
Ex-W: 45
M: Nov '96, together since Oct 93
Bomb: on 10-yr anni - Nov '06
OM
Separated: mid-Feb '07
Divorced mid-July '08
One daughter - 28
XW living w/OM