It is the mistake part that is so frustrating. It is very predictable. Sorry to beat a dead horse, but he is going to come around eventually. THs say it takes 3 months to two years right? But most LBS cannot wait that long before the WS realizes it. It does suck that the clocks get out of sync and we cannot just say,
"Hey you are having a mid life crisis. Right now you are wearing a costume and using transitional friends. You are in replay and your affair with a weaker woman, younger version of spouse, looser OP is a temporary ego boost. When you are done in a few months, come find me as I will have gone dark and have started dating a more accomplished person."
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."